这名年轻妈妈故意坐到角落计算双胞胎儿子看了她几次，这研究结果就是「现代父母都该学的最重要一课」！

布兰黛 (Brandie) 是名住在加州的年轻妈妈，跟很多年轻爸妈一样，布兰黛也是个常上网并使用社群平台的人，所以有一天她做了一个实验，想看看当个低头族对她的孩子会有什么影响。实验对象是她两个可爱的双胞胎儿子，布兰 (Blaine) 跟莱利 (Rylie)。她在脸书上分享

February 4, 2016

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世界, 科技

布兰黛 (Brandie) 是名住在加州的年轻妈妈，跟很多年轻爸妈一样，布兰黛也是个常上网并使用社群平台的人，所以有一天她做了一个实验，想看看当个低头族对她的孩子会有什么影响。

A young mom from Lakeside, California named Brandie conducted a small experiment on her two twin boys Blaine and Rylie. Brandie wanted to know the role/impact of technology that exists within the family dynamic. Brandie took to Facebook to share the results of her experiment, and her post viral in a big way. “Today I did an experiment, I watched my boys play,” she writes. “As I sat quietly in the corner of the room I tallied how many times they looked at me for various reasons: to see if I saw their cool tricks, to seek approval or disapproval for what they were doing, and to watch my reactions.”

实验对象是她两个可爱的双胞胎儿子，布兰 (Blaine) 跟莱利 (Rylie)。

她在脸书上分享结果：「我看着我的儿子们玩，然后默默坐到角落，计算他们会看我几次，理由可能有：看我有没有发现他们的超酷创意、看我赞不赞同他们做的事，或看我的反应。」

“28 times my angels would have wondered if the World Wide Web was more important than them. 28 times my boys would have not received the attention most adults are searching for. 28 times my loves would have questioned if they were alone emotionally. 28 times my kids would have been reassured that who you are online is what really matters.”

廣告1

「有28次，我的小天使们想知道网际网路有没有比他们重要；有28次，我的孩子们有可能得不到我们大人都想寻找的关注；有28次，我的心肝宝贝会疑惑他们在心灵上是不是孤独的；有28次，我的孩子可能会重新确认到你在网路上的样子才重要。」

“In a world where we are accepted as who people perceive us to be and not who we really are, in a world where validation comes from how many followers or likes we have, in a world where quality time with loved ones is being replaced by isolation and text messages from the other room, I beg you to be different.”

「在这个世界，我们是被人以我们网路上的样子接受，而非我们真正的样子；在这个世界，自我认同是从我们有多少追踪者和按赞数得来；在这个世界，跟心爱的人共度的时光被隔离和从另一个房间传来的简讯取代了。我希望你们能有所不同。」

“Please put down your technology and spend some time with your family & loved ones. The next generation of children is counting on us to teach them how to be adults, don’t be too busy on social media, you never know who is watching and what message you are sending.” Granted, many are going to call out the obvious fact that these photos exist and were taken with a phone. But I think in moderation using your devices around children is perfectly healthy. So we'll cut Brandie some slack on that one. Via Facebook

廣告2

「请放下你的科技装置，花点时间陪你的家人和心爱的人。下一代的孩子要靠我们来教他们如何成为大人，不要只忙着上社群平台，你会永远不知道谁在看你，还有你正传递怎样的讯息给他们。」

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布兰黛将这则讯息分享到脸书后，到现在已经超过了7万多个分享。

来源：Thechive

小编在捷运上的时候也常常看到有年轻爸妈顾著用手机，都没有在理小孩的…把这篇分享出去吧，特别是如果你的朋友有小孩的话！

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