這名年輕媽媽故意坐到角落計算雙胞胎兒子看了她幾次，這研究結果就是「現代父母都該學的最重要一課」！

布蘭黛 (Brandie) 是名住在加州的年輕媽媽，跟很多年輕爸媽一樣，布蘭黛也是個常上網並使用社群平台的人，所以有一天她做了一個實驗，想看看當個低頭族對她的孩子會有什麼影響。實驗對象是她兩個可愛的雙胞胎兒子，布蘭 (Blaine) 跟萊利 (Rylie)。她在臉書上分享

February 4, 2016

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布蘭黛 (Brandie) 是名住在加州的年輕媽媽，跟很多年輕爸媽一樣，布蘭黛也是個常上網並使用社群平台的人，所以有一天她做了一個實驗，想看看當個低頭族對她的孩子會有什麼影響。

A young mom from Lakeside, California named Brandie conducted a small experiment on her two twin boys Blaine and Rylie. Brandie wanted to know the role/impact of technology that exists within the family dynamic.
Brandie took to Facebook to share the results of her experiment, and her post viral in a big way.

“Today I did an experiment, I watched my boys play,” she writes. “As I sat quietly in the corner of the room I tallied how many times they looked at me for various reasons: to see if I saw their cool tricks, to seek approval or disapproval for what they were doing, and to watch my reactions.”

實驗對象是她兩個可愛的雙胞胎兒子，布蘭 (Blaine) 跟萊利 (Rylie)。

她在臉書上分享結果：「我看著我的兒子們玩，然後默默坐到角落，計算他們會看我幾次，理由可能有：看我有沒有發現他們的超酷創意、看我贊不贊同他們做的事，或看我的反應。」

“28 times my angels would have wondered if the World Wide Web was more important than them. 28 times my boys would have not received the attention most adults are searching for.

28 times my loves would have questioned if they were alone emotionally. 28 times my kids would have been reassured that who you are online is what really matters.”

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「有28次，我的小天使們想知道網際網路有沒有比他們重要；有28次，我的孩子們有可能得不到我們大人都想尋找的關注；有28次，我的心肝寶貝會疑惑他們在心靈上是不是孤獨的；有28次，我的孩子可能會重新確認到你在網路上的樣子才重要。」

“In a world where we are accepted as who people perceive us to be and not who we really are, in a world where validation comes from how many followers or likes we have, in a world where quality time with loved ones is being replaced by isolation and text messages from the other room, I beg you to be different.”

「在這個世界，我們是被人以我們網路上的樣子接受，而非我們真正的樣子；在這個世界，自我認同是從我們有多少追蹤者和按讚數得來；在這個世界，跟心愛的人共度的時光被隔離和從另一個房間傳來的簡訊取代了。我希望你們能有所不同。」

“Please put down your technology and spend some time with your family & loved ones. The next generation of children is counting on us to teach them how to be adults, don’t be too busy on social media, you never know who is watching and what message you are sending.”

Granted, many are going to call out the obvious fact that these photos exist and were taken with a phone. But I think in moderation using your devices around children is perfectly healthy. So we'll cut Brandie some slack on that one.

Via Facebook

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「請放下你的科技裝置，花點時間陪你的家人和心愛的人。下一代的孩子要靠我們來教他們如何成為大人，不要只忙著上社群平台，你會永遠不知道誰在看你，還有你正傳遞怎樣的訊息給他們。」

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布蘭黛將這則訊息分享到臉書後，到現在已經超過了7萬多個分享。

來源：Thechive

小編在捷運上的時候也常常看到有年輕爸媽顧著用手機，都沒有在理小孩的…把這篇分享出去吧，特別是如果你的朋友有小孩的話！

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